In this country, more people die of suicide than homicide. That’s alarming. In fact, it’s estimated that 1 person commits suicide every 11 minutes. In 2020, 45,979 people died by suicide. It shouldn’t come as a huge surprise to learn that suicide is the 10th leading cause of death in the U.S., according to the Centers for Disease Control and Prevention.
If 45,979 doesn’t sound like a big number to you, then think of it this way: In 2020 alone, 1.2 million people attempted suicide. With that many suicides, there’s a good chance you may know someone who’s committed suicide or someone who’s been affected by suicide in some way. In fact, about 50% of people in the US say they do know someone who has died by suicide in their lifetime.
Here are three things you need to do if you suspect that someone in your life is considering suicide.
Sometimes people fear that if they approach a suicidal friend or family member that it’ll somehow increase those negative thoughts. The truth of the matter is if someone already has suicidal thoughts, confronting them isn’t going to push them further to their breaking point.
In fact, approaching them may do some good because it lets them know someone cares. The sooner you intervene, the better.
One approach to starting the conversation is to keep it somewhat vague. You can begin by saying something along the lines of, “You haven’t been yourself lately. Is everything ok?”
Oftentimes, people who are considering suicide are suffering in silence. There’s nothing wrong with approaching that person, but remember that suicide is a sensitive subject, so you have to be delicate and nonjudgmental.
That said, avoid saying things such as, “Just be positive” or “Your family and friends will be so hurt.” Do, however, let them know they’re not alone and that you’ll be there to support them every step of the way as they get through this difficult time in their lives.
Use the conversation as a way to educate them as well. Inform them that help is out there and there are even
anonymous suicide prevention hotlines they can call. More importantly, let them know how much their life means to you – be sincere, be genuine.
Your job as the concerned friend or family member is to provide support – not solutions. As much as you probably want to solve all their problems, one of the best things you can do is listen, be supportive, and check in often to see how they’re doing.
Not sure how to do that? You can always call a crisis line to receive some professional advice. Although it’s difficult, you can’t force someone to seek help if they don’t want it. It’s up to them, but sometimes, all a person needs is the love and support of the people around them to be honest with themselves and get the help they need.
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Suicide Warning Signs Include:
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If you are considering suicide, call the 988 Suicide & Crisis Lifeline by dialing 988 or visit their website.
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