Everyone has that one friend that is the go-to source for sex and love advice, and it turns out that everyone’s favorite “Barb” Nicki Minaj fits that description. In a very telling interview for July’s issue of Cosmopolitan, the “Pinkprint” rapper opens up about her recent breakup, mommy goals and of course sex. “I demand that I climax,” states Minaj in the most revealing interview she has done to date. “I think women should demand that.”
Nicki goes on to talk about how she goes about teaching her girlfriends that have never experienced the pleasure of an orgasm and the key to reaching one. “I have a friend who’s never had an orgasm in her life. In her life! That hurts my heart. It’s cuckoo to me. We always have orgasm interventions where we, like, show her how to do stuff. We’ll straddle each other saying, ‘You gotta get on him like that and do it like this.’…”
Nicki’s interventions sound like a lot of fun especially during a girls’ night in with a few drinks and some music to liven the vibe. Sex is always a topic of discussion among friends, and it pays to have at least one friend in the group that isn’t afraid to tell it like it is about sexuality. Every woman should have a sex positive friend with the mindset like the “Queen of Rap,” but why you may ask? Well, there are a few reasons:
Your sex life will never get stale.
Having a friend who is sexually aware is like having your own sex guru within reach. Sure, she may not know everything there is to know about sex, but she knows enough to be able to guide you into the direction of sexual satisfaction. So don’t feel ashamed or embarrassed to reach out to her for some sexy tips. She is your BFF after all.
You have proof that these sex tips actually work.
Typically when one reads a self-help book or articles online concerning sex advice, it can be difficult to judge whether the tips given by experts will actually work until they are applied, but with first-hand accounts as told by someone you trust putting these tips to use will be less intimidating.
You have great motivation to get it right.
Your sexually aware girlfriend loves you so much that she wants you to experience the amazing feeling an orgasm brings with it. What better motivation to improve your sex life than to have your best friend keeping you charged up and giving you another source of permission to enjoy sex the way you deserve.
You have a great sex positive role model.
Sex can be intimidating for many women especially when positive messages about female sexual pleasure have rarely been present throughout her life time, but that issue can be remedied by having a friend in your life that can serve as a role model for owning your sexy and claiming your sexual satisfaction. Your friends are here to not only make you laugh and be there during hard times but to also push you to be the best being you can be; that includes owning your sexuality.
So if you don’t have a sex positive friend like Miss Minaj in your life, it’s time that you find yourself a woman who can fill those shoes. Hey, you just might be that sex positive role model in your group of friends waiting to become the teacher. Make a commitment to become educated about sexuality to maintain a well-balanced lifestyle. You deserve it.
Glamazon Tyomi is a freelance writer, model and sex educator with a deeply rooted passion for spreading the message of sex positivity and encouraging the masses to embrace their sexuality. Her website, www.sexperttyomi.com, reaches internationally as a source for advice and information for the sexually active/curious. Follow her on Twitter at @glamazontyomi and the all-new “Glamazon Tyomi’s Sex Academy” radio show here.
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